VESNA BOBAN
Reading Path
​This page brings together the main themes on this site and offers a gentle way of finding what might be most helpful to read next.
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When self-trust feels fragile
Core
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How we lose trust in ourselves — and how to find our way back
Optional depth
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Reconnecting with your inner voice – through dreams
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2. When the self becomes divided
Core
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When we confuse who we are with who we should be
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When the mind turns against itself
Optional depth
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Doing your own shadow work
(An earlier reflection on parts of ourselves we struggle to accept.)
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3. When guilt or self-blame dominate
Core
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Responsibility without self-attack
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When guilt turns against you
Optional depth
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3 steps to forgiving yourself and finding healing
(A more structured reflection on the same theme.)
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4. When emotions feel overwhelming
Core
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When it’s all just too much
Optional depth
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(none needed here — this piece stands on its own)
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5. When relief or escape becomes tempting
Core
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When thinking falls quiet: the experience of flow
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When we try to escape ourselves: the pull of dark flow
Optional depth
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5 tips to get in touch with your intuitive mind
(A lighter, earlier piece.)
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6. When relationships are where things hurt most
Core
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Relationships as a path to growth
Optional depth
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The 5 stages of love
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7. Reflections from the therapy room
These pieces sit slightly outside the main path and offer concrete examples of how these themes can appear in real lives.
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Julie: A revelation about a relationship breakdown
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Joseph and Georgina: A discovery through relationship counselling
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​A final note
You don’t need to read everything here to benefit from this work.
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Some pieces speak only when you’re ready for them. Others may never be necessary — and that’s fine. Trust what draws your attention, and leave the rest.
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