VESNA BOBAN
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If you’ve arrived here, it’s likely because something in you no longer feels settled or trustworthy.
You may be caught in self-doubt, harsh inner criticism, or a sense that you’ve lost touch with what you once knew inside yourself. This work is for that place — not to fix it, but to understand it more kindly.
This isn't a place for quick techniques, but for practical guidance that helps you relate differently to your thoughts, your feelings and yourself.
You'll find reflections on:
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how we lose trust in ourselves
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why the mind can become a hostile place
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the difference between responsibility and self-attack
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how forgiveness — especially of yourself — becomes possible
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the quiet process of coming back to your inner core
There’s no right way to read this work.
You can move slowly.
You can take what helps and leave the rest.
If you’d like a place to begin, these pieces form a gentle path:
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How we lose trust in ourselves
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When your thoughts turn against you
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Guilt, responsibility, and self-forgiveness
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Why self-hate feels convincing — and why it isn’t the truth
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Finding your way back